7028668: 3/4 improve diagnosibility and robustness of sun.tools.attach.WindowsVirtualMachine.openProcess() Summary: Add more info to OpenProcess default detail error message. Try a different technique when a Java process is attaching to itself. Reviewed-by: zgu, ohair, alanb

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